Monday, August 31, 2009

Christian Louboutin


FASHION GEOGRAPHY - Where to Go:

Those who truly know me, know that I am not a namebrand groupie and can wear $2 flip flops all year if the weather allows. HOWEVER, I still believe that fashion is expressed art that deserves every bit of the attention it gets (in most cases). So if there is a chance of getting these great art pieces at unbeatable prices then all should know!

For ladies who wear Christian Louboutin shoes or long to have his shoes grace your feet (vice-versa for the diva), but don't delight in going broke for the experience, the perfect place for you www.discount-louboutin.com

The down-side is that there isn't a HUGE selection but it's enough to find the deal you may desire. He's got up to 85% savings. Shoes that are normally thousands of dollars cost no more than a pair of new Jordans (or less)!

Check out the latest in stock!

Also, while you're there, take a peek at the Manolo Blahnik and Yves Saint Laurent Collections also at 85%savings!
Enjoy!

Sunday, August 30, 2009

A Look Back...

I just wanted to post some things that spoke out to me in the news dealing with Christianity.

I'm still waiting to get more info on these stories. If you have heard anything more then let me know.

In the News:

- Praying Dad Found Guilty of Reckless Homicide...
- Miracle: 90-Year-Old Man Gains Back Sight...
- Christian Girl flees from Muslim Family
...


Praying Dad Found Guilty of Reckless Homicide

According to The Associated Press, Dale Neumann, 47, of Wisconsin was found guilty for not seeking medical attention for his 11-year-old daughter, Madeline, who died from undiagnosed diabetes. He, his wife, Leilani and others, gathered in the home around Madeline to pray in agreement for her “complete healing”. 911 was contacted by someone in the home when she stopped breathing.

The mother, Leilani, was convicted of second-degree homicide and now both are facing up to 25 years in prison.

Prosecutors say that it was Neumann’s duty to seek medical attention for his daughter. Neumann stated, "We didn't really sense it was like a life-and-death situation. We figured there was something really fighting in her body…”

AP made mention of another incident where the parents of a 15-month-old were charged with manslaughter for depending solely on prayer instead of seeking medical attention. Their child died of pneumonia and a blood infection. Their charges were reduced to misdemeanors.

As Christians, some may want to know when it’s okay to receive secular help. I find it quite interesting that we know when to accept government aid or the help of an unsaved friend when we are in financial trials. Yet when it comes to life and death, some allow (who I believe) Satan, to trick believers into thinking that if they ask for aid in the medical arena that they are somehow doubting God and not operating in faith. The Bible says that the gifts come without repentance. Therefore, God has gifted people, saved or unsaved, for the sake of His mercy, purpose, glory, and love. We should never feel like we are having less faith for seeking medical attention. The Lord has not created us to be one-man shows and know it alls. No. We have been created to need and love one another.

Satan’s goal is to steal the Word of God from our remembrance, kill us (physically or spiritually), and destroy our destinies in Christ Jesus. Let us not be ignorant of the enemies devices. Let's not over-spiritualize simple matters.



Miracle: 90-Year-Old Man Gains Back Sight

What would you do upon getting your sight back?
Well Marty Alvey, 90, is looking for a young hot love of about 75 years!

In a CNN interview, Alvey told how he was legally blind for 3 years and after being dizzy and taking a fall, he made a 911 call and took a trip to the Emergency Room. The doctors found nothing wrong with him but then he noticed that he was able to see and told the doctor.

The doctor could find no medical reason for his sight returning.

“God blessed me. Why? I don’t know.”

Jeanette Spinelle, his daughter, told CNN about the walk they took and said that “he could see everything he couldn't see before”.




Video link: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sbvOnz26bbE


Christian Girl flees from Muslim Family

17-year-old Rifqa Bary left her home in Ohio and fled to Florida in fear of falling victim to an honor killing by her Muslim parents for converting over to Christianity.

"They love God more than me; they have to do this," Rifqa said. "I'm fighting for my life. You guys don't understand."

As reported by The Associated Press, Rifqa is a recent Christian convert and had been communicating with a Christian Florida family through an online prayer group.

Rev. Blake Lorenz, Pastor of Global Revolution Church has been her upfront support. He stood by her side as she stated her claims of endangerment.

Authorities question whether or not Rifqa is in any real danger feeling that the parents are genuine in their concerns for their daughter. Rifqa’s father, Mohamed Bary, stated, "We love her, we want her back, she is free to practice her religion, whatever she believes in, that's OK." Her father said he didn't make any threats toward her and feels she has been wrongly influenced.

The story is a bit complex to judge for the simple fact that Muslims are known to practice Sharia law which would condone the killing of a Muslim that converts to another faith. Conversion from Islam is considered an embarrassment to Muslim families and an act against Allah.

There simply aren’t enough details from either side to determine the realness of Rifqa’s concerns. Last heard, Rifqa is in state custody and authorities aren’t fully sure if she should go back to her parents.



Video link: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=09WjFwe8pUk

Friday, August 28, 2009

No more Telemarketers! New Law...

Here's what's up. Telemarketers can't call your house but now neither can those annoying automated messages.

I still have to get more details but I know AOL had a story about it if you can track it there.

This new law prevents telemarketers from calling even if they have done business with you in the past. The only way a telemarketer can contact you is if you give them written permission.

Yay!

Thursday, August 27, 2009

Do You Have Fears?

If you have F.E.A.R, you must remember that you have already been given F.A.I.T.H.

God says that He has given each of us a measure of faith! Lets take advantage of it! Romans 12:3

F.E.A.R stands for:
FALSE EVIDENCE APPEARING REAL.

F.A.I.T.H. stands for:
FAVOR AS IN THE HEAVENS.


"Faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen." Hebrews 11:1

I hope this encourages someone.

Plaxico Burress


In 2008, Plaxico Burress, former wide receiver for the Steelers and Giants, created his own nightmare by shooting himself in the leg with his own gun while in a New York nightclub.

Burress had the gun in his waistband when it started slipping. When he reached for the gun it went off and shot him inches away from his femoral artery. The hospital failed to report the incident to the police but they found out anyway due to the news coverage. He turned himself in to face charges.

Burress is scheduled to report to prison in September and I think it's just crazy. Here is a man with no serious priors. Okay, He did have a couple of domestic issues which were dropped, some moving violations, and he had plenty of issues on the field.

He has to serve a 2 year sentence and then once out, will be under supervision.
Now under New York law, he should have received at least 3 1/2 years so apparently he was shown some leniency. However his bond was a bit suspect.

Before finding out his status, Burress' bond was only $10,000. After finding out who he was, it was set to $250,000. This is where I had an issue. It's obvious that the state saw his bond as an opportunity to fatten their pockets. I hardly think they suspected him to be a flight risk because he would have too much to lose. Also, they knew most likely that even if he were a flight risk, he could still afford bail and leave.

Plaxico said in an interview that he didn't know it was illegal to carry at all. I don't know if he was telling the truth or not. He stated that after being burglarized twice and knowing friends that had been robbed, he felt the need to protect himself.
In his case, I am sympathetic to his concerns and I'm sure many other athletes feel the same way. However, with owning firearms and having a public status, one should think wisely enough to go the extra mile to be aware of and adhere to city and state laws. They have too much at risk to not be knowledgeable in these things.

Due to the mishap, Burress will miss the birth of his new daughter in November and will be away from his wife and son as well. Professionally, he is now a free agent and will most likely play again after his release, hopefully more humble and wiser.

Monday, August 24, 2009

This Weeks Heavenly Knock List

Not enough people are hearing about a few of these saints, or I'm just REALLY late!
Let me know if you like the list.

VIKTORY


TITUS BOXX ALCAM


KLARITY


VIKTORY & CANTON JONES


WITNESS & APRENTIZ


Before you judge this dude, research him. SEVIN


CAJO G.O.D. REMIX


CAJO I love this song - TOP MODEL


CAJO is just really killin it...last one from him this week I promise..lol


Here's that dude NUE BREED! He's a breath of fresh air in hip hop - genuine. He offers his own style but doesn't lose the listener! www.myspace.com/nuebreed317
NUE BREED on the Reno Hype Show

Life On the Tarmac



How familiar is the frustration of being stuck on a tarmac waiting to take flight.

We recently have heard of the horrific story of passengers being stuck on a tarmac for 9 hours or so and that it took an overall 12 hours to complete their transport.
Passengers rightfully complained of the stench of an overused toilet, stinky diapers, crying babies, lack of comfort, and lack of food and drink.

I find it interesting that in the same way these people were detained, often, life can detain us in a similar manner. Sometimes the attempt to get moving is stalled for unbelievable or even unknown reasons. No matter how much we are ready to complete a task, go higher in our purpose, or feel the need for greater success, there can be a huge delay. Our plans for our lives get re-routed, shifted, and sometimes shut down, causing us to create a new action plan. Though, this can be depressing, frustrating and totally inconvenient, if we are smart we'll allow the interruption to make us more creative and wisely productive!

We've all been created and wired to move toward something. Aging and death are proof of this. So either way, whether delayed, denied, or derailed, our lives our filled with a purposeful inertia.

Sunday, August 23, 2009

What To Really Do When Your Spouse Looks Guilty...


What do you do when every arrow points to your spouse cheating but deep down you think they're not?

1. First. Think rationally and remember that arrows are meant to harm and pierce deeply. Don't be [an easy] target! Therefore, be careful not to act simply off the appearance of things. Keep peace and shun negative thinking if you can.

2. Be honest and examine yourself. Are you unusually insecure? Or do you have valid reason to be suspicious; trust your instinct and don't feel bad about your suspicions. Suspicions are sometimes God's way of guiding us to a better place.

3. Do not talk to irrational people that never have peace or keep up drama, no matter how much you love them. Don't speak to anyone that plays sides, no matter how much they love you.

4. Remember who your spouse is. Trust that special part of them that made you feel secure from the beginning. It's okay to believe that they are not cheating on you. Have faith. Pray the Lord expose them to him/herself and fill their heart with understanding and wisdom if they have been making unwise and disrespectful choices.

5. You feel your spouse has crossed marital boundaries? This doesn't mean adultery has taken place. This is possibly a danger zone for it to soon occur so you must be confident in what you see and respectfully discuss what you have noticed. Tell them in so many words that you see the arrows that have come to destroy your union. Respectful communication is key.

6. Do not repay evil for evil. Don't spark more confusion by doing the same wrongs as your spouse. Be the bigger person and simply act like you have a life outside of him/her. :o)

7. You must still do your part! Love and admonish your spouse and don't be afraid to be made a fool of; you know, the feeling of being naive or gullible while s/he sleeps around.

8. Trust the Almighty! Don't look for negative signs because that gives room for evil to cloud your judgment. God will reveal to YOU what the real deal is. What's in the dark must always come to the light. It's a principle set forth in this earth that must occur. God will confirm whether your spouse is guilty or not and your heart will not be changed. You will be secure in your knowing.

Be blessed!

Saturday, August 22, 2009

So They Waited... and Waited



I was one of those people who would say that I would call you right back and then not do so.

You know, I really thought that it was normal to do that. Surely the person I'd say it to didn't really expect me to call them right back. I mean I just figured that if I remembered to or needed to actually call them right back then cool, but if not, then it was no big deal! I thought nothing more of it.
Does this sound familiar? Sure it does. You either do it to someone or someone does it to you. It's just that common.

One of my best friends recently had this same complaint about business calls that needed to be followed through on. She felt she should not have to track down grown individuals to get time sensative updates. She has full right to be disappointed. They would tell her they would call back with the info and then never call back!

It took for my brother to drill his point home to me about this very act that I was constantly committing against him. He kept reminding me of how he really took me for my word when I said I'd call back. He complained that he'd expect the call the same day but then days would go by and he'd here nothing from me.
Without him saying this directly to me, I was finally starting to understand that what I was doing was being inconsiderate of other people. I didn't know that people were taking my words seriously. My mother, brother, sister-in-law, and friends all at some point had this issue with me. I realized I was being selfish in my thinking; I never even thought to consider their feelings...I didn't think it was important enough. However, it made everyone feel as if I felt they weren't important enough to care.

Think about it. When someone you care about says they will call you back - especially when you are discussing something of importance - don't you sit closer to your phone, expecting to get that returned call? How does it make you feel when you never hear back? Do you end up having to be the one to call back?
Lets do unto others as we'd have them do unto us. :o)

So now when I say I will call back, these are not aimless words that will go out void. My words will complete their task. Even if I am unable to call right back to finish a conversation, I now try to at least call back within the same day or 24 hours. It's a simple and selfless act of respect.

p.s.
I was also one of those people who would hang up the phone without saying goodbye. The grandparents hated that one!

Earring Pins


Something that I absolutely love and can never find are earring pins. They make a stud earring look basic. They're fun, flirty, bold, & scarce - which makes them a great treasure for your jewelry collection!

The earrings featured are White Gold and Diamond Wing Earrings from ylang23.com See my entire ensemble here.

Thursday, August 20, 2009

More Polyvore!

Okay so here are the fashion sets of my choice thus far. You can eye fashion and much much more at www.officiallyG1magazine.com

Find me on Polyvore

My Polyvore Fun!

Check out what's in the news and what's relevant for today! Click here.


Polyvore is the go-to for fashion, furniture, and art collages. Above is one of my personal 'what's hot' fashion collages I put together.

If you are someone that can sometimes be clueless as to what to buy for yourself then Polyvore is a place to explore your options without wasting money on buying things you'll never wear! Let your dreams come true on Polyvore. Have at it so you'll know exactly what you want when it's time to shop!

To see more simply click the pic!

Sunday, August 16, 2009

Lazy Workout that Works...Go Figure

Let the baby that gave you the fat, take off the fat! Make it a daily event! These are exercises that can be done with your baby in your arms.

Some of you that know me are probably wondering why I would be writing about taking off the fat when I've always been thin and trying to gain weight. Well after having my two babies, yeah, I was thin, but I had no tone and cellulite was making me feel even less sexy.(For those who don't know, cellulite on a skinny woman really makes us look lazy! LOL) But seriously. After having my second child I really wasn't getting out at all; even now.

So here are a few moves from my "Lazy Lady Workout Routine" that I do right in my bed or on the couch watching Young & the Restless (my guilty pleasure). If you're like me, you will almost feel guilty getting in a nice workout without having to go to the gym!

A couple of these workouts work great while breastfeeding but overall for just bonding with your baby through holding or touch while you tone up during a busy day.

Stretching:
Short and sweet honey... don't hurt yourself but make consistent holding efforts for a few short minutes.

- Naturally stretch your entire body. Take at least 5 to 10 minutes total.

Before each position, make yourself comfortable but make sure it's you, and not your pillows doing the work!

Grab & Lift:
- Literally grab anything that you can hold with one hand while you cradle your child in your other arm. I don't care if it's your remote, or a can good. I use my purse if it's by my bed because it usually has a bit of weight to it.

- Lay close to the edge of your bed (or across the couch) with baby in arm opposite the edge.

- As you are cradling your baby, do simple arm lifts with the arm that hangs off the edge. Lower your arm as much as you can stand it and lift it back up.
You can do this with your arm straight or bend at the elbow.

- Do 3 sets, increasing the number of lifts each time. I usually go as high as I can tolerate the muscle burn - that is normally the number I stick to until I no longer feel the burn at that capacity and so I up the anti until I do feel it. I call this the 'burn notice' which is that tense burning feeling we get in our muscles. The burn is a sign of building and toning. Usually I simply do 3 sets of 35. 35 is my burn notice. Be realistic. Many do more and many do less.

- Switch baby into the opposite arm now. Also you will have to switch opposite edges of your bed or couch to let your other arm hang now. Repeat. Don't forget to keep baby as a loving focus.

Rock-A-Bye-Baby:
My son use to fall asleep to this one.

- Lay flat.

- Cradle baby across your chest into your bosom with both arms and do half sit ups.

- Don't tense any other parts of your body so that all the muscles in your upper torso are obliged to work.

- Once again, you set the count according to your burn notice.

- Do 3 sets.

Get 'Em High:

- Lay flat on your bed as you hold baby in the air (straight up & out) for fun & allow your legs to slightly hang over the bed.

- Either keep baby high, keeping playful eye contact, or gently raise and lower baby as you begin to do partial sit ups while doing leg lifts (3 sets per leg).
With each leg lift, raise or lower baby (or just keep baby gently held up).

- Allow as much tension to go to your lower torso as possible.

- You can also lay flat and do this as well. However, sitting up causes the neck, abs, arms, buttocks and legs to work harder.

- Do 3 sets

Be a 2:
- If you wish to be a 2 and healthy then grab your toddler child and run, jump, giggle and wiggle with him/her. Acting like a two year old is not only great for your body and soul, but for you & your child's bond!

These were just a few quick tips for a lazy but valuable workout...Why work harder? Work smarter right?

For more from Essence click here!

*Do these exercises at your own pace and at your own risk.

90 Yr-Old Gets Vision Restored. No Explanation.

Miracle: 90-Year-Old Man Gains Back Sight

What would you do upon getting your sight back?
Well Marty Alvey, 90, is looking for a young hot love of about 75 years!

In a CNN interview, Alvey told how he was legally blind for 3 years and after being dizzy and taking a fall, he made a 911 call and took a trip to the Emergency Room. The doctors found nothing wrong with him but then he noticed that he was able to see and told the doctor… To read or see video of full story click here.

Friday, August 7, 2009

Heavenly Knock List

So God knows what the real deal is. I've known Christian artists that are rappin' just for the rush, the hustle, the fame it can bring...but no matter what, as long as Christ is preached; as Paul so patiently stated (phill 1:18). So, I would like for us to look at the art of the music itself from the actual artists. These are some of the Christian Rap artists known for having integrity and staying true to the scriptures! For them it's God's business but not for the sake of getting rich...They do it for the love and if they just so happen to get the money too then good for them! The following is my Heavenly Knock List. I guarantee that my rap fans will favorite this one!

Heavenly Knock List of the week:

Flame Lecrae & John Reilly



Dillon Chase -This dude is on the come up for sure.


Thi'sl...I'm still awaiting his interview for G1 (hint hint)


Lecrae Indwellin sin


The Ambassador My clothes my hair -ALL TIME CLASSIC!!!


T.R.U.T.H.




Willie Will & Jazz Digga Changed Man - One of the best songs of all time!


Willie Will Unborn Child - I have no words for this song..just wow.


Corey Red Aids Awareness track WOOOOOOOOW - Ya'll aint ready *Check out his upcoming interview in www.OfficiallyG1Magazine.com


Christian Rap Remix off youtube that I came across.


C-Micah "I'm Good"

Wednesday, August 5, 2009

POPCORN CEILINGS - Poem

I’ve lived my whole life between popcorn ceilings and vinyl floors.
Next door neighbors and dollar stores.
Liquor stores, Checks Cashed, and the plethora of churches.
From clubs on the weekends to changing purses…
Faith came around so now I’m rooted.
And these same popcorn ceilings and vinyl floors
Have made each sip of life diluted…i see more now for which i am suited.
My walk in Christ, in which I am booted.
I see my dreams but reality is MYYY perspective.
Let me keep my mouth shut…
I see my President whom God’s elected.
Let me jump on the seen from quietly within the heat…
I see me…”I” see me, doing what I soberly can’t see
The visions I have are far beyond me
The visions I have are not simply for me…
But for my neighbor, the chosen, and called to be.
For those and I, economically and spiritually…
And to encourage my brother, my slave to the faith…
Whom also lived their lives between the heavens and dirt floors.
Questionable neighbors and whores.
Strip clubs, churches, and liquor stores.
From hard drugs back in the day to cancer sticks…
Faith came around, yet struggle abounds…
The thorn in my side; the looks of other people’s eyes
the reflection of hope in which we must all abide.
ALL for His glory purpose and praise!

This is nothing funny, just familiar… Poem

a peak of a new ness
only known to a poor man
only words in a pool of vision (and he finally made it plain).
drenched with a tolerable unrest
Jesus Jesus Jesus as he cries
cuz He hears
but Jesus Jesus Jesus
won’t abide
Jesus Jesus Jesus won’t abide merely ta tears.
His Word is His Word
yeah, we all know that
but what about when the words are spoken and there’s nuthin in return, nuthin you seem ta get back;
moan and groan moan and groan
but do you see why there’s nuthin in return?
Jesus Jesus Jesus says that it’s patience the poor man Must learn.

-essence yarbrough-neal 10/10/07 3:34a

Skinny in Fat America

I came across a 2yr old paper that I wrote in college about being underweight that I feel the need to share. I believe this paper is relevant still today. It's very informative and will hopefully encourage or enlighten someone.


For far too long, being underweight in America has been looked upon as being glamorous and a sign of physical perfection in comparison to being overweight and obese. The media overwhelmingly bombards and dominates the public minds with the “how to” diets, pill prescriptions, weight loss programs, and medical options such as gastric bypass surgery to meet the needs of the many overweight individuals in America. The tools provided to those who are overweight, such as the mentioned above along with camps and retreats are endless. Any such tools for the underweight are practically non-existent. Being naturally underweight is often mistaken for or associated with being anorexic or having other eating disorders and sickness. This is not the case in this research paper. Being naturally underweight is a heavily overlooked topic in America and as a result of this, there is a voice of a small few that have been neglected and left to fend for ones self. Temptations and pressures of vanity projected onto society plague not only the overweight, but the underweight alike. The main difference however, is that there is obviously more being done to encourage and aid the overweight population while overshadowing the needs of the underweight. The emotional trials and health problems of those that are naturally underweight (or “skinny”) are greatly underestimated in America in comparison to those who are overweight and obese.
It is obvious that though the underweight and overweight individual are at opposite ends of the spectrum, the common issues shared by both, undoubtedly connect at those ends (The Associated Press, 2004). Walking in a public place, one underweight individual hears negative comments on how skinny one is, yet at the same time, are looked down upon when in the midst of a crowd of those trying to lose unwanted weight. On the flip side, people that are obese or merely overweight clearly have had the similar issue of public humiliation in some form as well. One hears about the child embarrassed by their parent’s weight and do not favor them going around their friends. In other cases such as physical and mental health, although being overweight causes a few more obstacles, high blood pressure, diabetes, depression, hypo and hypertension, are all risks that both have in common in some form. Obviously, skinny and heavy people alike still have problems fitting certain types of clothing, fitting on amusement park rides (either can not fit or too thin to safely be secured in a seat), and having to count calories either to lose or to gain weight.
There are a few reasons for being underweight. A person may have a high metabolism which basically means their body burns calories very quickly, which is why in most cases, a thin person is able to eat so much and not gain weight. The other reasons could be due to malnutrition, sickness such as AIDS and cancer, or dealing with eating disorders (The Associated Press, 2004). Another reason could simply be heredity. There are some cases in which it is obvious that a person may just have a small skeletal framework and so their body naturally is not made to hold a lot of weight (Aaron, 2003). In any case, no matter the reason for being underweight, it is important to maintain good health.
Being naturally underweight is not looked down upon nor deemed as a problem in the same way as being overweight, which contributes to the underweight neglect. The obvious issue is that the majority of Americans prefer being thin instead of overweight or obese. In a study highlighted in PsychologyToday.com, 50 percent of Americans were unhappy with the sizes of their abdomens and waists. Others find it practically loathsome to be overweight and said they would do anything to prevent being overweight, proving how Americans are bias when it comes to weight and obesity in particular (PT Staff, nd). But what all this does is add more pressure on to the underweight person who is expected to look good all the while needing help that is not readily available with a sympathetic ear (Barrier, 1991). When it comes to appearance, the thin person is acceptable and the overweight person is not. This mentality is what leads to the mental health issues dealt with by thin people (Aaron, 2004).
There is a tendency to assume that naturally underweight people are not insecure about their body image. Often times when the subject of weight arises and the overweight person makes reference to losing, while the skinny person to gaining, the response to the skinny person is most likely to be, ‘you’re perfect how you are” and, “you can fit anything”. Chris Collier, a political science major of Bedford, expresses this even further to The DailyToreador.com as he states, “If you're thin there's nothing wrong with you - you don't need to change. If you're overweight there's something wrong.” While these comments should be flattering, they generally are not, simply because the truth is that having a low body mass index (or BMI) is far from perfect, it’s unhealthy, and one can not hardly “fit anything” without getting alterations. Of course this statement Collier made is a good example of the perception that a thin individual has to often face. No matter how much society wants to over rate being thin as glam, in reality, the insecurities that go along with being thin can be anything from having [for women] extremely small or flat breast or [for men] a bird chest, to not fitting into bottoms, certain shoes, or just fitting in among peers in a social atmosphere. In a time where having a Brad Pitt or thick Beyonce buttocks, breast from Dr. 90210, and a size 24 or 36 waist, and thick legs are choice over stick legs and a buttocks that can barely hold up or fill out your pants, being skinny just adds up to falling short of necessity.
Many overweight and non-overweight alike, make it there (for some) unrealistic goal to become skinny, while the underweight struggle to gain healthy body mass. While fat America is finding out the best ways to lose weight, skinny America is searching where they may, to find how they can put on the pounds. Becoming overweight is a constant attention getter (Hellman, 2005). The overweight have Curves, Jenny Craig, The countless health plans have no sympathy for the underweight. A healthy body mass index is generally between an 18.5 and 24.9. Anything under an 18.5 is considered unhealthy (DHHS, nd). Falling below these lines can be very frustrating for the underweight person and leave one feeling a bit hopeless.
There are potential illnesses that can stem from being naturally underweight. Issues such as thyroid malfunction, hair loss, and heart arrhythmia are known to occur among underweight individuals. Other problems include brittle bones from decreased bone mass and the absence of the menstrual cycle, also seen in overweight people (Aaron, 2003). Depression and anxiety both were found to be more of a problem in underweight individuals more than overweight. It was realized, in one regard, that even though thin individuals have less physical disability or illness than overweight people, the thin person is more likely to suffer from mental health issues (Paulik-Kienlen, 2007). Basically, underweight people can become fatigue easily and more prone to disease due to a weakened immune system (Barrier, 1991)(The Associated Press, 2004). It is obvious that there are many different illnesses that can lead to serious problems if not addressed, which is why it is important that being underweight be looked at as seriously as being overweight.
The overwhelming bias that America has toward the overweight image greatly demonstrates the misconceptions of being thin and overshadows the potential threats of being underweight. According to NationMaster.com, currently reported, there are approximately over 300,000,000 people in America. As shown in the following graph, two percent of Americans are underweight, 57 percent are overweight and obese, and 40 percent are in a healthy weight range (CDC report, 2004).
Table 1
According to WebMD.com, 46 percent of people said they would forfeit a year off their life to be thin, 15 percent said they would off 10 years of their life, 25 percent said they would give up being able to have children. Getting even deeper, 15 percent said they would rather be clinically depressed, 14 percent said they would rather be an alcoholic, 5 percent said they would give up a limb. More results showed that 10 percent of people said they would rather have an anorexic child than an obese one and 8 percent said they would rather have a child with a learning disability (DeNoon, 2006). People voiced their true opinion about preferably being thin.
There is a definite difference between being intentionally underweight and naturally underweight. When someone is naturally underweight it is not because they chose to be so. The struggles are separate. When someone is underweight due to an eating disorder it is generally a choice that at some point was made. The problem with someone with an eating disorder is that they are afraid of what food will do to them as a consequence of eating. The cases in which the general public is use to hearing about are from Hollywood and other celebrities. These are mostly cases of people having eating disorders, surgeries, or sometimes non-related illnesses.
Pressure from cultures, certain geographical areas, the business world, and media can strongly influence or even oppress the perception of one’s own self-image. In the south, being overweight is known for being more accepted and in some ways expected due to the type of “soul” food that is eaten. Being thin is looked down upon because the perception is if one stands out of the crowd, say being thin as an example, that person is not considered normal and it is assumed they do not properly eat (Aaron, 2003). In some African cultures, the more overweight a person is, the more prosperous they appear. If this were to be true, underweight individuals are all poor. This is obviously a foolish claim, however is taken very seriously for those who hold it in esteem. In business, it is a known fact that overweight people are not as likely to get hired because of the idea that they are “lazy”. But in a recent MSNBC online article, one company is going even further. Clarian Health Partners is thinking about charging their employees for being overweight among other things because they are more of a costly health risk (Oppenheim, 2007).
There has been little say so about how to handle naturally underweight issues. Being underweight in society means having to take on a lot of mental baggage and still feel the pressures of being viewed as one who most likely has it together on the mere fact that one is thin. Thin in America is the choice shape and is considered beautiful, yet those in the position have the proof that beauty truly can be deceptive. From the television to the medical office, being underweight is clearly the least regarded and yet is most highly favored. How one can favor the least investigated, is a mystery. The more the public learns about this hidden problem, the more the public can begin to understand the truth about the problems that a portion of America faces and how to help.
It is a catch-22 being underweight. An underweight individual has the benefit of not having to deal with carrying a lot of extra weight or fighting the more easily detected side effects and other obvious issues from more weight, but still gets under treated and criticized because of the problematic unnoticeable signs of being underweight. Unless one is sickly thin in appearance, being skinny is a treat or a luxury in the eyes of society, yet no one knows nor understands the side effects of being so thin. Because being thin is constantly in the limelight, a thin individual may not even suspect they are at risk. If there were only more stories, more awareness, or just simply more clarity on this subject that being skinny is not what it is glamorously portrayed to be, maybe there would not be as many people with eating disorders. The truth is that being naturally underweight is a problem that an important few do face, and is often ignored or written off with scrutiny merely as a personal insecurity rather than a hazard that is to be cautioned and respected by society.

Saturday, March 14, 2009

Where on Earth is God?


Nowadays, there is such a low tolerance for the Bible and worship that I don't know how worship leaders, teachers and preachers do it.

I have noticed the pull... the struggle to break through all of the deceptions, religious traditions of man, worldly and church hurts...Hang-up on top of hang-up makes it harder than ever, in a barely believing Christian society, to publicly and heathily claim the word of God as tried, true, and triumphant. The worship becomes greatly stunted and shallow. I'm not saying that people have to shout to the rooftops and jerk about 'til their necks break off, but when someone is watching one of their sport teams play, everyone in their surrounding will know; the mood is set, the favorite snack is ready, the word is put out that it's game day!

Today it seems that people don't want to read the Bible for themselves without using it against someone or for the sake of attempting to disprove it. In some cases, people use it to justify sins. A lot of people's views of Christianity - if they step back and notice - are nothing more than a build up of other people's views, words and actions. But who is the Christ in the Bible? Read Matthew, Mark, Luke and John. These four books of the Bible tells us in great detail. So if we have to take someone's word about Christ, lets learn from the first sure-fire Christians that died for their Friend instead.

I'm hearing more and more stories it seems of people leaving the Christian faith. People get tired of feeling judged by Christians. But then again, as I would dig deeper into their stories I'd learn the actual truth was that they really never were ready to know how Sovereign God really is. Deconversions usually happen when something bad happens and God appears arrogant, mean, cold, or like a dictator. Sometimes someone just decides that the bible doesn't really make all that much sense anyway or is just easily talked out of the faith they thought they were suppose to automatically belong to. Either way, some deconversions occur out of a level of sheer arrogance or pride... Really it becomes a moment comparison to a teenager getting angry or frustrated at their parents for doing something they don't understand. Hey, I can't blame a person for that...there is so much evil in this world that God does not stop from occurring, yet who am I to say that God is wrong. I am merely the creation not the Creator. I urge the reader to check this out

Friday, August 22, 2008

Home Based Businesses; Myth, Magic, or Mayhem?

Okay... People are always looking for that home-based business. I personally think that the home based business really is a myth gone bust! Are there any trustworthy HBB's? Of course there is the true (do-it-yourself) home based business which is something I do enjoy, but I'm talking about the stuffing envelopes for a load of weekly income type of ordeal with low overhead and no need for a phone (due to the fact that I'd have to make shhhh references to quiet the kids every 5 minutes). However, I must admit that a company that I know is honest and highly reputable is Alpine Access. It's won't give you your own home business but they're legit and you do get paid by the hour. It's customer service from your home. All you need is private space, a sound proof headset, and a computer with high-speed internet access. Visit http://www.alpineaccess.com/external/index.html and see for yourself.

Here is a very helpful website that alerts the seeker to the many web scams out there and he provides the list of each web address. It saved me time and $$$ yet the downfall is that there is no list of legitimate hbb's (home based businesses) to point me into a better direction. I don't know; I'm sure he updates. Here's the link: http://niba4u.com/